Do you beg for love?

Are you in a one-sided relationship? Do you feel like you desperately love the person you are with but they don't feel the same way about you? Miscommunication is usually the biggest culprit that can cause a relationship to fall off track. You may find that you are nagging the person you love and that you are literally begging for them to love you. What can you do if you find yourself begging for love? Here are some tips to try:

Tip # 1 - Realize your feelings
Before you confront the person you love, you need to recognize what your feelings are. What is it that is truly bothering you. Do you feel that you do not have an emotional connection with this person? How about a physical connection to them? Make a list of all the things that you are feeling so you can talk to your loved one about them.

Tip # 2 - Time
Sometimes the reason you are begging for love is because the two of you are not making time for one another. It's easy to get into a relationship and place it on cruise control once you get comfortable. Avoid doing this by keeping the relationship fresh by going out for a date once or twice a week. Plan trips that are only for the two of you instead of with the entire family. Making time for one another is one of the best ways for the two of you to get back to your roots and remember why you are in love.

Tip # 3 - Communicate your feelings
If you don't tell your partner what you are feeling, how will they know that there is a problem? No one knows how to read minds and if you don't tell them that you are feeling unwanted, they won't know how to change it.

Tip # 4 - Don't give up
Many times people give up on a relationship before they even put in the effort to fix it. If you felt love for this person at one time, you can certainly find a way to rekindle that love. Put in the effort to make the relationship work and don't just look for the easy out.

Tip # 5 - Attract him/her again
Finding yourself in the position of a one-sided relationship is never easy. If you still care for this person and you want the relationship to work, you need to make the time to try and attract your partner again. How can you attract them again? Try some of these simple tips:

• Appeal to their sight. We are all initially attracted to a person based on looks. If you are wearing tattered t-shirts and frumpy clothes, toss them into the laundry bag and start dressing nice again. Making yourself look nice again will show your spouse that you are attractive and worthy of a second glance.
  
• Appeal to their smell. This may sound a little odd, but its amazing how a spray of perfume or a dash of cologne can attract your partner and make them want you again.
  
• Appeal to their touch. Another way to attract your partner again is to touch them and give them a reason to touch you. During dinner, caress their leg or arm. Snuggle with them on the couch. Offer to give them a massage and ask for one in return. Encouraging them to touch you will make you fell at ease about your relationship. It is important to continue the routine of touching them often or you will lose that physical connection that is quite powerful in a relationship.